Friday, 4 September 2015

(A MUST READ)4 OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS ONE NEEDS TO HAVE TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE



- having God
- having a plan
- having the courage to follow the plan
- having an optimistic mindset and persistence

-HAVING GOD -
                     There is a saying that goes like this, "if God is all you have, then you have all you NEED" .  From this saying , you can see that with God, you can achieve anything. Every success comes from God, He is the number one step to success.  To be successful, you have to always  and pray to God. You have to ask him to take control of your steering towards your success in life and you would see how comfortable you would be at the back seat.



-HAVING A PLAN-
                      A plan is a very essential step to be a successful man or woman In life because without a plan your being successful would be based on just luck.
                      you must have a plan, it mustn't be a well set-out plan, it mustn't be very perfect.  A plan helps to make you confident towards your being successful. All you need to do is consider whatever is in your plan as MAJOR and every other pop-ups as MINOR. Stay focused on the major, by following your plan, you would find yourself slowly reaching the point of achieving your goals. Your plan can be written, it can be recorded. Its advisable to have a written plan in order to not deviate from the plan. If the plan can't be written, it is still okay to just keep it in mind.
                      




-HAVING THE COURAGE TO FOLLOW THE PLAN-
                       The courage to follow the set-out plan is another easy yet difficult step for most people. Sometimes opportunity stares at us from a close distance but we lack the courage to grab it.
                       I have found a way to kill the fear within us, it works with me, it has worked with so many other people so I am sure its going to work with you. It is very easy, all you have to do is to develop the mind-set  of "opportunity comes but once" . It is a very effective method, it removes the fear of grabbing the opportunity by substituting it with the fear of losing the opportunity for good.  Let me give an example ,I have a friend that was once faced with an opportunity of singing in front of a crowd during SUG week at Nnamdi Azikiwe university(UNIZIK), he was too scared of the crowd. He tried his possible best to kill the fear by drinking enough water but to no avail, so he lost that opportunity. If only he had the mind-set of "opportunity comes but once" , he would have taken that opportunity without much thinking.





-HAVING AN OPTIMISTIC MINDSET AND PERSISTENCE -
                        Never give-up, never lose hope, if you fall,you stand. I am just trying to be plain.    No matter the number of times you fail to succeed at doing something ,do not give up, you might be almost there without knowing that you are almost there.  GIVING-UP has been one of peoples major reasons for failure in life.


                         Major reasons why people give-up is ;
(1) because of how difficult something is
(2) because of how unsuccessful something has been
   To conquer the habit of giving-up , you have to have the mindset of " I am almost there"  ..This mindset doesn't just make you persistent, it makes you optimistic and it keeps you positive. 
                     being positive and persistent are very important habits one needs to cultivate in order to make it through all life's difficulties and finally achieving your goals.

Formed by  Mr. Ekechukwu Vincent

HAVE YOU EVER FOLLOWED THESE STEPS AND STILL WAS NOT ABLE TO ACCOMPLISH YOUR GOALS??? (comment below)

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